You're part of someone else's problem. Don't make it your own.
The theatrical, dramatic, gregarious fun you are "assisting" will make you its slave unless you see it for what it is and not fall prey to what you think it can do for you. Instead use the flow of physical and organizational energy in your life to return the focus to YOU.
Then, the fun will be JUST fun and you lessen the chances of a sucker-punch.
You don't "need" astrology, but you need to be reminded that "One monkey don't stop no SHOW," as my Daddy used to say. Don't even bother complaining about it(them). It would take away from your blessed day.
You're not left out; you're just out of touch with all the theatre and melodrama swirling around you. Be appreciative of your place in the eye of the storm. In 3-4 days, the Twister's Eye Walls will be spinning you into the fray. Use the objectivity now for the trip, later.